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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am thankful for the inspiration I am giving and receiving with others! I am thankful for the opportunities to assistance I am providing and receiving with others! I am thankful for better moments, better days and a better version of myself…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Get the book: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/26/27-3/
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When the “I need more” conditioning isn’t controlling what’s let in, there’s much more peace in one’s life, but this isn’t because peace is let in, it’s because nonsense isn’t let in so that naturally allows for one to be at peace.

Much goes on in one’s day to day living and for the most part there’s no control over what happens. Even if there was, with the way the Conditioned Mind has been developed, it wouldn’t change the way things are. The first thing that has to happen for the possibility of any change to take place is one has to understand what’s being let in to shape your day to day, even moment to moment existence. Much is viewed throughout the day, but it’s mostly let in through the default setting of the conditioning in place. It’s let in, but it’s not done with any sense of awareness so it leads one to being controlled like a puppet on a string. There’s no choice in this until there is, but unfortunately until there is, one will let in things that aren’t beneficial and hence if it’s not beneficial it will cause much trouble and suffering.

Think about the things that are attached to, the list is basically endless, the problem with this is not much that’s grabbed is beneficial. We are a species that has lost its way and it’s because of what we let in. There is a nothingness to life that has to be seen so one can decipher if what they have been conditioned to let in is beneficial or not. I let a lot in for many years that I thought was beneficial, but in truth it kept in bondage to the “I need more” conditioning. I always needed more so that’s what I let in, but it was never enough. Today it’s much different because to a large degree the “I need more” conditioning isn’t controlling what’s let in, so there’s much more peace, but this isn’t because peace is let in, it’s because nonsense isn’t let in so that naturally allows for one to be at peace.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

"I am moving forward for me regardless of the negative opinions and labels from others, because I am doing what's best for my life! I am moving forward for me regardless of the negative people and circumstances created by others, because I am doing what's best for me! I am moving forward for me..."

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros 
Life Guide and Author

Get the book: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/25/26-3/

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Seeking happiness makes it elusive so it will constantly be sought, and this is because the Self that wants happiness only knows how to seek it, it doesn’t know how to be happy.

Most people look at happiness as if it’s something that can be attained, but the only way to experience happiness is by letting it go, and what it is that needs to be let go of is the Self who wants to be happy. Everyone at some level understands that happiness can’t be found in things, but usually it’s discounted and one continues to pursue happiness as something to attained. In the process happiness will continue to be elusive, thus it will continue to be sought. There may be moments of happiness in one’s life, but only when things are the way that they are wanted. This is another trap (Mind Pattern) of the Conditioned Mind and it wrecks havoc because it keeps one entrapped to thinking life needs to be a certain way and this is where happiness lies. Many pursue this and cause their own death, but this is extreme. Happiness is mostly pursued by just about everyone and even though it’s not to the extreme of death, it is at the cost of one’s own freedom.

Happiness is always dependent on something that one’s Self finds appropriate. This appropriateness arises in many forms and it’s very difficult to spot because of the conditioning in place. It arises as any judgement you may have of another or situation, this is strictly the Self thinking that it knows what’s best for everyone. Really it all comes down to wanting whatever arises different and not being able to just be with what is and simply being ok with that. Until that time comes, happiness will continue to be elusive, but it will constantly be sought because the Self that wants happiness only knows how to seek it, it doesn’t know how to be happy.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

"I am thankful for the brighter moments throughout the brighter days I have the opportunity to enjoy! I am thankful for the opportunities to enjoy brightening my thoughts and my imagination to share with others! I am thankful for inspiring myself, inspiring others however I can and the inspiration everywhere in between..."

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros 
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/23/24-3/

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The more one allows things to be in control, the less one truly lives. You may be alive, but until it’s seen that everything falls away, you will remain in bondage to whatever you alone give power to.

Watch how all things arise and fall away. Seeing this is very valuable in the letting go process. What is held onto becomes one’s bondage, but it can simply be let go of, that is if it’s seen it is being held on to. Each moment arises and as it does it seems as if it’s there, but where is it truly. A vacation, a job promotion, birth, death, sickness, health, marriage, divorce, golfing, having a cigar, each day, going to work, going home from work, and on an on, all things arise and fall away, only attachment to them gives them the power to control. Nothing in an of itself has any power to control, it has to be given power. Before anything is attached to (society calls it addiction) it’s just there latent, lying in wait. Nothing has power until it is given it. The drug dealers can make all the heroin they want, but if no one needed to alter the way that they felt, it wouldn’t have the draw (power) it currently has. This is the reason so much money is spent on advertising, the advertisers know just what to use to entice people into unconsciously reaching for things .

Everyone gets caught by something, it’s just that some things have the power to totally devastate life and some are very subtle, but the common factor of everything is nothing has inherent power to control. Everything would arise and fall away if it wasn’t attached to and this is because nothing can control a person without the person allowing it; the given control can only come from the person. The more control is given away the less one truly lives. You may be alive, but until it’s seen that everything falls away you will remain in bondage to whatever you alone give power to.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am okay with my faults, my weaknesses and undesirable outcomes! I am continuing to be the best I can be for me! I am okay with who I was, who I am now and who I am becoming! I am continuing to be the best I can be for me! I am okay with my past, I am okay with my present moment and I will be okay from here forward…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/23/24-3/
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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am peacefully accepting my past, and freely allowing my mind to peacefully be! I am peacefully accepting people as they are, and freely allowing myself to happily be! I am peacefully accepting all the good that is offered to me, and freely allowing myself to give, share and enjoy…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/22/23-2/
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The more one’s thinking is in line with the world, the more suffering there will be. This is because the world only allows a surface perception, but beneath the surface perception is what’s truly going on.

Our made up perceptions when not seen in the awareness of mindfulness, solidify the delusions they arise from. This delusion is formed from the surface level of our perceptions which form the concepts that we live by which makes what is originally seen misunderstood as the deeper reality of what’s actually happening is missed. We get locked into the perceptions that form our concepts of what going on, this is also why there’s so much division amongst our species and why very few see the truth of existence. Mostly everyone has a different perception of the same thing so how can there not be division and strife amongst us? The greater good is very seldom considered, what’s mostly considered is the surface perception of the world and unfortunately it’s core is usually from the base of “I”.

It doesn’t have to be this way, but one will have to drop their perceptions to see beneath the surface. The world has perceptions on the material realm, it doesn’t really address the spiritual. Our internal longing though is spiritual and although at first many pursue the quest of material gains, at some point it’s discovered the material gains don’t produce lasting fulfillment. This is when at least the initial shift happens to make one look elsewhere for fulfillment, but unfortunately with the world’s perception in control, the material realm remains in place. It isn’t until one starts to look within that there’s the chance for real change, but this looking within can’t be superficial or true change won’t occur. What will need to change is the perception that what is seen on the surface of life is not what’s going on and then and only then will there be the chance of truly seeing what life has to offer.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am moving forward exciting myself for more awesome adventures of fun and play! I am moving forward exciting myself for more entertaining events of amusement and fun! I am moving forward exciting myself for more worthwhile memories…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros 
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/21/22-2/

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To love is to live. Without love, there is the constant need to seek answers to questions about life, but when you love the seeking stops because the need to ask questions stops.

Have you ever wondered what the meaning of life is? There’s no way of really knowing this unless you make up an answer through the mind made concept of a thought. You can make up any answer you want, but know this, it isn’t a true answer, it’s made up by the Conditioned Mind because it needs something to latch on to. The Conditioned Mind doesn’t like it much when there’s no real answer to something so it will make one up. This is the essence of a Conditioned Mind, it has to have an answer, but having an answer isn’t necessary to live except to the Conditioned Mind.

The very essence of all that the Universe stands for is the very essence of what happens in each and every moment. An answer is not needed though, but if the mind isn’t settled this will not be seen. The answers to “What is the the meaning of life” is there is no answer, because an answer isn’t needed to live. A made up one is needed if you are living a delusional life, but if your mind is settled, an answered won’t be needed because the question won’t come up. With a settled mind questions aren’t needed because it’s known love is what exist and everything else is just a made up answer of the Conditioned Mind. When questions arise from the Conditioned Mind about this or that, understand the only answer needed is to be still and love. It is here that no questions arise and no answers are needed because you know, all you need is love.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am striving more and more to flood my life with more love! I am striving more and more to flood my thoughts with more positivity! I am striving more and more to flood my day with joy! I am striving positively…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/20/21/
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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am seeing positive results and outcomes from my positive thoughts, while I look forward to more! I am seeing positive affecting changes and benefits, while I look forward to more! I am seeing positive affecting progress and success, while I look forward…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/19/20/
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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am blessed for being me, for this life I have, and for the opportunity to make the best of it serve me beneficially! I am blessed for surviving this long, for the strength to continue, and for the opportunity to better my life on my terms! I am blessed to enjoy, to play, to adventure, and to share it all…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/18/19/
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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am feeding my mind so much more loving thoughts, positive ideas and blissful moments to continue nourishing my bliss! I am feeding my imagination so much more inspiration, aspiration and motivation to continue nourishing my bliss! I am feeding my life so much more love, happiness and joy…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/17/18/
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Attachment is a double edge sword, not only does the original attachment get you, but when you’re attached to outcomes where they’re labeled as not liked, attachment to the attachment gets you.

The real issue with attachment is it’s not only the first thing attached to that causes problems, it’s the attachment to the attachment that makes it a real detriment in one’s life. It will take a concentrated effort to see this, but with practice it can happen. Let’s use traffic as an example. You’re driving in traffic and it’s annoying you because you have somewhere to be. That it’s annoying you is the first attachment, now you’re trying all kinds of maneuvers to get out of the traffic, but wherever you go there’s more traffic. That’s where attachment becomes reinforced and causes more problems than what it’s truly worth. It the same thing when you do something (you pick what it is) and then you go round and round with your thoughts on why you did it, or you should’ve did this or that. This goes for just about everything, it’s done all the time. Attachment to attachment is insidious and very harmful.

Do what you do and let it go. If the conditioning wasn’t in place to do what you do, you wouldn’t do it. Accepting yourself in your entirety is key if you are to be at peace. You will do what’s in place until what’s in place changes, but nothing has to be attached to and it won’t unless you put a label on it that it needs to be different, and once you do that a label will be applied to the label and a deeply engrained pattern will be formed that will keep you attaching to your attachments. This is the double edge sword of attachment, not only does the original attachment get you, but when what you’re attached to changes to where it’s labeled as not liked, the attachment to attachment gets you. A settled mind should pick this up, but it has taken me some time to accept my conditioning exactly as it is and not attach to it. This is where one will experience awareness aware of awareness and thus peace.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am leading myself to much more blissful moments! I am leading myself to much more awesome adventurous moments! I am leading myself to much more entertaining fun loving moments! I am leading myself to much more memorable worthwhile moments! I am leading myself…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/16/17/
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There’s no reason to try and get what you want unless you are unhappy with what you have. This only happens because the mind doesn’t know how to just be with what’s here right now.

Endlessly trying to get what you want is the root to your suffering because even if what you want is attained, trying to get what you want will not stop there. Trying, reaching, grasping or whatever it’s called is at the root of suffering because it doesn’t allow one to be with what is actually here. What has to happen if this endless trying to get what you want is to ever stop is the need has to subside. This need is only in place because of the Conditioned Mind making you think you need what you want. There’s no other reason to try to get what you want unless you are unhappy with what you have. This is how we fill the empty spaces in our life. They have to be filled because that mind doesn’t know how to just be with what’s here right now.

One day the endless trying will end because life in this form will end, but you will be no more complete than the day existence in this form began. Think about it, most people spend their entire life bouncing from one thing to another in search of filling the empty spaces that arise, but only because it’s not known that this need is a delusion. It’s so subtle this need to fill, that most will die thinking it’s unfilled. If life isn’t filled right now what do you think will do it? Name something, go get it and in a short time the need to fill the empty space will return. Just remember, there’s no other reason to try and get what you want unless you are unhappy with what you have.

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Today’s self empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

"I am giving myself permission to love more deeply, to be the kind of love I want to see, hear, feel, and have in my world! I am giving myself permission to love more often, to enjoy more often, to play more often, and to share more often! I give myself permission..."

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Personal Link: https://amazon.com/author/edwardftcharfauros

Original Post: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2017/07/15/16/
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